Midwives Lelystad

Friends book of midwife Oona

Oona Verloskundige - Verloskundigen Lelystad

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1. What is your nickname and why? +

I don't have a fixed nickname, but people close to me also call me Onkie, Onkel, Oonson or even Oona Fonkel. Don't ask me why!🙂.

2. What is your superpower (besides delivering babies) +

My superpower? My sensitivity and eye for detail. Picking up on the little signals, reading people and listening between the lines to try to offer exactly what is needed at that moment.

3. What was your childhood dream? +

As a child I dreamed of becoming a farmer! That wish still lives – one day I want to live in the countryside and eat from my own garden..

4. What is a fact about you that you don't usually tell but secretly want to reveal? +

Not something I usually say, but goats are my favorite animals! They are playful, curious and free – maybe I recognize myself in that. This fall I worked on a farm in France for a few weeks, where I got up early every morning to milk the goats. The farm owners also gave me the opportunity to learn how to make goat cheese. This experience only deepened my love for goats. Who knows, maybe one day I will have a piece of land with my own happy goats.

5. Are there things that you secretly find difficult and for which you admire others? +

I have a great admiration for musical artistry. Music has a moving power, especially when it is played live I think. The way it can directly convey emotions and connect people is something I find really special. It seems like a language that goes beyond words and the ability to master that is something I look up to enormously.

6. What do you like to eat when you have time to sit quietly after a busy shift? +

When I really want to treat myself, I go for fresh sushi – it feels like the perfect treat after a busy day. But when it comes to practicality, I usually opt for something quick and easy. My favourite cuisines are Middle Eastern and East Asian.

7. What does your ideal day off look like? +

My ideal day off starts with my ultimate guilty pleasure: drinking a cup of coffee in bed and waking up in peace. Then into nature for a good walk and in the evening cooking and having an extensive dinner with friends or family.

8. Are you a morning person or a night owl (or both because of your job)? +

The early bird catches the worm - I love mornings because the world has yet to wake up, and that's when I'm most productive. Evenings are actually just as sacred to me, but they're more about relaxing - like having a drink on a terrace with friends.

9. What does your ideal holiday look like? +

"Good company, a backpack, mountains and the sun, lots of walking and unexpected encounters along the way. Simple and without strict planning and then a nice meal in the evening before crawling into our tent. Those are real moments of happiness for me!

10. What is a moment in your life that you always look back on with a smile? +

“The period in my childhood when our door was always open to others and there was always room for everyone to join us at the table is something I look back on with great warmth. That atmosphere of hospitality and the sense of community have deeply shaped me. The realization that happiness can be shared, that you can invite others into your life and share moments together, is a value that I cherish. It remains a foundation in my life, something that will always continue to inspire me.

11. What's the best spontaneous decision you've ever made? +

A few years ago I deleted all my social media accounts - a spontaneous decision that I am often grateful for! It brings me peace and lets me really live in the moment, without the constant stream of stimuli or the urge to compare. My world feels a lot lighter and more real since then.

12. When and how was your first contact with maternity care? +

My first contact with maternity care was actually very personal, at the kitchen table at my home, while my mother told the story of my own birth. She spoke with so much gratitude and respect about her midwife and how important this woman was to her in that intense and intimate period. That touched something deep inside me. Those stories brought a sense of meaning and connection with the profession and I was immediately fascinated. That same evening I started googling about the study and the work as a midwife, the next morning I knew enough to register immediately. It felt like the right choice, almost self-evident.

13. What's the most hilarious thing you've ever experienced during childbirth? +

That remains between me and the people who were there 😉.

14. What would you do if you had to wait in a delivery room for an hour? +

“I would probably eat something first to keep my energy up, maybe make a few notes for the next few hours, but mostly just quietly enjoy the moment. It’s always special to feel the tension and anticipation in the air, that calmness and focus can help you be fully present when the moment comes.

15. What is your “midwifery life motto”? +

It takes a village to raise a child” – and that starts at birth. In many places around the world, giving birth and parenting are shared experiences, supported by community and rituals. In our modern society, we have lost some of that collective support, while the need for it remains. As a midwife, I want to help restore that connection, so that parents feel supported in trust, freedom of choice and the power of togetherness.

16. If you had to choose: always a water birth or always a stormy home birth? +

Then I choose a water birth, water works wonders.

17. What's your favorite baby name of late? +

Too many to mention! But I like names with a soft sound and a special meaning.

18. What music do you have playing in the car when you're on duty? +

In my car I can only listen to the radio or a CD. I secretly like that – it keeps me up to date with current events. But what really works well to get my energy up are the cheerful, rhythmic tunes of Amadou & Mariam. That always puts a smile on my face!

19. What is your favorite snack during a long shift (or during labor)? +

My favorite snack during a long shift is a tangerine when they are in season – nice and refreshing and energizing. When they are not, I always keep a bar in my bag for a quick boost.

20. If people were to describe you, how would you want people to remember you? +

As someone who was full of enthusiasm, but at the same time radiated calm. Someone who gave confidence and really listened, with attention to the moment and the people around me.

21. If you were to give birth yourself, what would your ideal birth look like? And who would be there? +

My ideal birth would be at home, in a warm and calm atmosphere, surrounded by people I trust. It would be an intimate and safe environment, where I could surrender completely to the moment and the power of my body.

22. If you had a time machine and could relive one moment in history, what would it be? +

If I could relive one moment in history, it would be the 60s and 70s, a time of revolution and freedom. The counter-cultural movements and the search for personal expression really appeal to me. Sometimes I feel like I was born in the wrong time, stuck in the speed and expectations of society. The idea of a time when people dared to free themselves is something I would have loved to experience.

23. If you could give one last piece of advice to all pregnant women, what would it be? +

Trust yourself. You know your body and your baby better than anyone. Surround yourself with people who support you, but always listen to your own feelings and needs. Your strength and wisdom are greater than you think.

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