Are you wondering what the perfect age is to get pregnant? It's a question that many expectant parents are wondering about - and rightly so! Midwives Lelystad we understand that this is not an easy choice. There is a lot to consider, from your body to your life. Let's look at all the ins and outs together, so that you can make a decision that really suits you!

Biological Fertility: The Twenties in the Spotlight

When it comes to your body, you’re usually at your most fertile from your late teens to your early 30s. That’s the peak – you have a good supply of eggs, and they’re top quality. After 30, that starts to slowly drop, and after 35, the decline in both number and quality starts to accelerate. After 40, your chance of getting pregnant per month is down to 5%. But don’t panic – you’re still well into the green until 35!

A little more: your eggs are a finite pool – you’re born with them, and they diminish as you age. In your 20s, the chance per cycle is about 20-25%, but after 35, that drops to 10% or less. It’s nature – but that doesn’t mean it’s over after 35, just that your body can take a little longer.

Medical issues after age 35

If you get pregnant after the age of 35, there are some extra things to watch out for. The chance of a miscarriage grows, and chromosomal abnormalities such as Down syndrome are more common. Also premature birth, high blood pressure, or gestational diabetes can play a role. But good news: the medical world is more advanced than ever – with the right guidance, many women have healthy children later in life.

Extra info: after the age of 35, the chance of miscarriage increases from 15% to 25% or more, and at 40 it is even 40%. This is due to the egg quality. But with regular checks and a good team around you - such as at Verloskundigen Lelystad - you keep it sharp and safe.

How old are new parents on average?

In the Netherlands, women have their first child around the age of 30 on average. This shows that many people want to fix other things first – get a job, find a stable relationship, or just discover life. It’s nice to know that you’re not alone if you start later – it’s a trend!

More context: 30 didn’t come out of thin air – it’s a natural fit for how we live now. Education takes longer, careers take time, and housing isn’t cheap. It’s a shift – 25 used to be the norm, now 30 is totally fine.

What your life and yourself weigh

It’s not just your body that matters – your life matters just as much. How are you doing financially? Are you in a stable relationship? Do you want to travel the world first, score a house, or pursue your dream job? These are all pieces of the puzzle that determine what the best age is for you. It’s all about what you find chill.

Bonus: Your social vibe is key. Maybe you want to wait until your piggy bank is full or your partner is completely done. Or you’re a free spirit who wants to travel first. It’s your call – no one else can make it for you.

What do the experts say?

Gynaecologists believe that the “best age” varies from woman to woman. Yes, your twenties are prime fertility-wise, but if you’re still studying or kick-starting your career, that might not be your time. Talk to your midwife – at Verloskundigen Lelystad we’ll see what works for you.

More: Experts see that the biological ideal doesn’t always match your life. They advise: Know what you want, and check your options. Twenty-somethings, thirty-somethings, forties—it’s all possible, as long as you plan wisely.

Freezing eggs: a smart backup?

Freezing eggs is gaining fans – it gives you a chance to park your fertility for later. More and more women are doing it, and some employers are even paying for it. But it’s not perfect – there are caveats, such as cost and success rates. It’s an option worth considering.

Bonus: Freezing is a kind of insurance policy – you keep your twenty-something eggs for your forties. It costs a few thousand euros, and the chances of it working are not 100%. But it gives peace of mind if you want to get pregnant later without stress.

What we at Verloskundigen Lelystad do for you

Bee Midwives Lelystad we are here to support you – whatever your question about getting pregnant. Everyone is different, and there is no standard “best age”. We look at your life, your body, and help you choose what fits. From your first check-up to your delivery – we've got your back.

More: We’re not just your doctor – we’re your team. Want to know how your body is doing? Or are you unsure about timing? We’ll talk it through, without rushing, so you feel good about your plan.

Pregnant after 35 – is it still possible?

Absolutely – getting pregnant after 35 is still a go! Thanks to clever medical tricks, older mothers are giving birth to healthy babies. Yes, there are risks – increased chance of miscarriage or complications – but with good care, it’s often not a problem. Keep your midwife close, and you’ll be fine.

Bonus: You’re not alone – many women wait longer. With ultrasounds, checks and a solid plan, you can rock it. It takes a little extra attention, but the results are worth it.

How Money Guides Your Choice

Money matters can have a big impact on your timing. A house, a steady job, a stable relationship – many parents want to get that sorted first. In times of recession, we see fewer babies – which makes sense, because you want a solid foundation. Look at your own wallet before you leap.

More: The economy is a silent player – when money is tight, people wait. A child costs money, and you don’t want to be short. It’s smart to check your finances – it gives you peace of mind.

Conclusion: Your age, your path

There is no golden number for getting pregnant – it is up to you. Your body, your health, your love, your bank account, your dreams – it all counts. Choose what is right for you, and know that Midwives Lelystad here to help you. This is your story – we're writing it.

Just a little extra: it’s okay to doubt – no one has the perfect moment. Whether you’re 25 or 40, with a good plan and support you can make it your success. Let’s do it together!