As a future parent, you embark on an unforgettable journey full of joy, emotions and the occasional bit of tension: pregnancy. Midwives Lelystad we understand that no two pregnancies are the same and that sometimes your mind is full of thoughts. That is why we have created a handy list of the most important questions you should ask your midwife.

We cover everything: from the health of you and your baby, tips for during pregnancy, to what to expect at birth. It may happen that you don't know what to ask during an appointment, or that you suddenly think of what you wanted to know at home. With our list you are always well prepared and you don't miss anything important.

We want to give you a sense of peace and support, so that your pregnancy is as relaxed and enjoyable as possible. Let's go through these questions together, so that you make the most of every check-up!

The basics: what do you ask first?

Choosing a midwife is like finding a guide for your pregnancy – someone to help you through this special time. Before your first visit, you’ll probably have some questions, but are they the right ones? We’ve put together a list of essential points to discuss, so you can make sure you’re off to a good start.

Being pregnant brings with it a flood of information and tips, but it's all about your comfort and confidence. For example, ask about their care style:

How do you support me during pregnancy?
What do you do if something unexpected happens during childbirth?

This will give you an idea of their approach and experience. But the most important thing is that you feel comfortable with your midwife – a click and open contact are essential.

Theme	Ask	Why
Contact	How can I reach you if I want to know something?	Useful to know in case of doubt or urgency.
Adjustments	Can I discuss my wishes for the birth?	Make sure your ideas are taken seriously.
Preparation	What lessons or tips do you recommend?	Helps you get ready for the big day.

No question is too small. At Midwives Lelystad we are here to help you with everything, so that you can get through your pregnancy with a good feeling.

Giving birth: at home, hospital or center?

Do you want to give birth at home in your own environment, in a hospital with all the care at hand, or in a cozy birth center? Where you give birth is a personal choice, depending on what you prefer. Discuss all the options with your midwife to find out what suits you. Ask about experiences, pros and cons, and what is available. **Ask everything you want to know - that way you make a choice that you stand behind.**

Here are some questions to ask:

How often do women give birth at home or in hospital here?
When should I go to the hospital?
What happens if I am transferred?
What care do birth centers offer?
Can I use a birthing pool?

This gives you a clear picture of your options.

Location	Pros	Negatives
At home	Familiar place, own atmosphere, fewer interventions.	Less direct care in case of problems.
Hopital	All medical assistance immediately available.	Less homely, different midwife possible.
Center	More pleasant than a hospital, care nearby.	In case of complications, sometimes hospitalization is required.

With this information you make a conscious choice. At Verloskundigen Lelystad we support you, wherever you give birth.

Care during pregnancy

When you are pregnant, questions constantly arise. About food, exercise, your feelings, or how the delivery will go. Make a list for your midwife, so that you do not miss anything. Think about: "What do I really need to keep an eye on?" or "How do I prepare myself properly?" Many women find it difficult to organize everything, which is why we help you on your way.

Here are some smart questions:

Food and life: What nutrients do I need extra?
Birth: What can I do about pain?
Check-ups: How often do I come by?
Then: What is involved in breastfeeding?

Subject	Ask
To eat	Which pills should I take?
Birth	What are my pain options?
Health	What indicates problems?
Afterward	What does skin contact do?

This is a start – ask anything you think. At Midwives Lelystad we love openness and support.

All about contractions and childbirth

If you’re about to become a mom, you want to know what to expect. What do real contractions feel like? What exactly is happening? Here are some questions you can’t miss:

How do I know I have real contractions?
When does it really start?
What pain relief is available?
What are the differences between home and hospital?
How long does it usually take?
When should I go?
How do I speed it up?

This will give you an idea of what is coming and you can share your wishes, such as a birth plan or positions. This will help your team to support you perfectly.

Ask	Priority (1-5)
Recognizing real contractions	5
Home vs. Hospital	4
Pain relief	5
Long labor	3
Accelerate	2

Set everything up – your midwife will get you ready for the day!

After birth

Just given birth? You probably have a lot on your mind. No question is strange – your well-being and that of your baby are important. Here are some questions to ask:

Recovery: How do I take good care of myself?
Feeling: When should I seek help?
Move: What sports can I do?
Power supply: How do I solve breast problems?

An overview to take with you:

Ask	Why
Recovery Tips	For your health
Depression signs	Early intervention
To play sports	Get fit safely
Breastfeeding	Easier feeding

This phase is new, but with help you will get there. Ask anything you want!

Finally

Do you have your questions ready? Great! If not, this article will help you get started. No question is too much – your midwife is there for you.

At Verloskundigen Lelystad, in De Koploper, we provide customized care. Everyone is different, and we respect that. Is there anything unclear? Call us or ask during your next visit - we will take all the time.